Who Are the Victims?

Anyone can experience domestic abuse - it can happen in any relationship and for any reason. Over time abuse tends to increase in occurrence and severity. Other members of the household, particularly children, often witness what is happening and may end up being abused, if not physically then emotionally or mentally.

Domestic abuse will not end until someone speaks out - either the victim themselves or somebody - a relative, a friend or a neighbour - who cares about their welfare.

Since July 2005, a prosecution can be pursued without evidence from the victim. However, some people are anxious about coming forward to report domestic abuse and don't always want to get involved. This is where Crimestoppers can be invaluable. It provides the caller with the opportunity to pass on their concerns while remaining anonymous if they choose. Just one call could make all the difference - it could potentially save a life. Crimestoppers can be contacted on 0800 555 111.

Recognising the Signs

While every domestic abuse case is different, there may be telltale signs that indicate abuse is taking place. These include:

• Unexplained, regular injuries
• Children truanting / performing poorly at school
• Low self-esteem of the person being abused
• Withdrawal of social contact with friends and family leading to isolation
• Lack of financial independence
• Loss of control / extreme anger / anti-social behaviour regularly exhibited by the abuser
• Abuse of animals